When it comes to contraception, follow your ABC’s: Abstinence, Birth Control and Condoms. These are all ways to protect you. If you are sexually active you should protect yourself by using birth control and condoms; however, if you choose not to be sexually active then you are choosing to be abstinent. Abstinence is defined in the dictionary as the act or practice of refraining from a tempting desire. When you refrain from sexual activity you eliminate ways of having an unwanted pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases.
The best method of birth control (contraception)
Making decisions about birth control, or contraception is not easy – there are many things to think about. Learning about birth control methods you or your partner can use to prevent pregnancy and talking with your doctor are two good ways to get started.
Each method of birth control has its own pros and cons. That’s why it’s important to find the best one for you. When choosing a birth control method that best benefits you, you should be able to answer these questions first: will it improve your overall health, take into account how often you have sex as well as the number of sexual partners you have, determine if you want to have children before choosing a birth control, how well will your birth control work for you, will it prevent an unplanned or unwanted pregnancy, are there any side effects, are you going to be comfortable using the method that you choose? All of these questions should help you choose the best method for you.
Be sure that you understand the correct way to use birth control being you begin to use it. Talk with your doctor or nurse and don’t feel embarrassed about talking with her or him again if you forget or don’t understand. Know that learning how to use some birth control methods can take time and practice. Sometimes doctors do not explain how to use a method because they may think you already know how. For example, some people do not know that you can put on a male condom “inside out.” Also, not everyone knows that you need to leave a “reservoir” or space at the tip of the condom for the sperm and fluid when a man ejaculates, or has an orgasm. The more you know about the correct way to use birth control, the more control you will have over deciding if and when you want to become pregnant.